The end of 2011 is a little over a month away. It is the time of year when we tend to take an
inventory and assessment of our accomplishments over the last 11 months. We start to plan what we might possibly share in that Christmas letter that goes out to family and friends. What did I do? What did I achieve?
Most of us started the year with a fresh vision of what 2011 was to look like. In our minds we had an image of what was to be… personally, professionally, financially, relationally, physically. In January we were at “Point A” and in December we will be at “Point B”. For some, 2011 is their year. They consistently “seized the day” and find themselves victorious with their goals. For others, however, it is not uncommon to reach November and realize that the year was not as productive as planned. Some may actually find themselves further off course than when the year began. How does this happen? How do 11 months go by and we find ourselves no closer, or even further away, to a goal?
There are probably several answers and ways to look at this, however, one answer came to me during a personal mentoring session with Mitch Axelrod, author of The New Game of Business. Mitch consults with Fortune 500 corporations, small businesses and individuals on how to boost income, increase sales and profits and derive more fun, fulfillment and satisfaction from work.
His teaching is outstanding and during our session he asked a simple question, “Are you ready or are you just getting ready?”
I found his response to this question was very interesting: “Until you are ready, it is premature to talk about a solution.”
I found this response applicable to assessing our 2011 New Year’s resolutions…. perhaps we wanted solutions to problems that we weren’t really READY to solve. Perhaps we were “ just getting ready”. This answer implies that “Ready” has a certain resolve to it. That “Ready” requires overcoming. “Ready” requires courage and decision-making, and maybe even risk taking.
So, as we look at 2011 and plan for 2012 here are the questions to ask:
- Am I ready to be fit and lean… or am I just getting ready?
- Am I ready to be a connected parent to my child… or am I just getting ready?
- Am I ready to be a spouse that loves and serves… or am I just getting ready?
- Am I ready to grow in my faith… or am I just getting ready?
- Am I ready to experience deeper more meaningful friendships with others… or am I just getting ready?
- Am I ready to pursue that dream… or am I just getting ready?
- Am I ready to read great books… or am I just getting ready?
The American poet Ralph Waldo Emerson said it well when he said, “We are always
getting ready to live, but never living”. It reminds me of the cat shifting from side to side getting ready to pounce on it’s prey. Time waits for no one. It’s time to quit getting ready… let’s be ready.

